Happy Valentines Day in arrears. I hope you had fun. In the previous post, I made mention of the Slay Queens. Well, we will be discussing them in this post.
Slay Queen, Big girl no worries, Slay Mama, these and more can be seen on digital photos everywhere on every social media platform. With their curves and endowment, seeing them rock trendy outfits and latest gadgets can make any ordinary-looking girl feel insufficient. Thank God for photoshop!
You see, it is very okay to be attractive. In fact necessary. Looking good is every woman first priority. Happiness is looking into a mirror and seeing a beautiful princess stare back. Glowing-flawless skin, pretty features, and classic dressing are attributes of a good woman.
Although it is said that one will be addressed by one’s dressing, every girl has her style in which she is comfortable with. You feel good in a tank top on bumper shorts? Cool! Yours is long-sleeves and over-the-kneel-Cinderella skirts? That’s alright too! You should define you. The moment you start to copy or lose your decency over it is where the trouble starts.
As far as this post is concerned, nobody is against your dressing, the tattoos on your body, your choice of make-up (thump up for for the black-lipstick-black-eyebrows-smoky-eyelids girls) or your various turn ups. The issue is trying not to make it the only thing(s) you know how to do best.
Civilization or not, a woman is the living spring of her family. She is like a seed of corn that is taken from her cob and is planted elsewhere (on a dry land actually) to multiply and bring forth its own harvest of corn cobs. You must be thinking, weytin sef! only me waka com! Aye kan lo wa na! My sister, you have no choice o. It is your burden to bear. Your cross to carry. You as a woman is in charge of the upbringing and running smoothly of every life under you and around. You have been tasked to nurture, train, take care, build, fight, work and so much more, right from birth. Take it or leave it, you will need skills other than your beauty to achieve all these. Acquire these skills.
First and most important on the list, you will need money. Get enough of it. Be your own woman.
You don’t know how to cook, sincerely, sis, that’s not good but why cry over spilled milk? Take action fast! Register for a cooking class ASAP. Learn. It is never too late. Moreover, it is better than lying or pretending.
Perfect your home maintenance skill. Even if you are planning to get a house-maid immediately after marriage, some things will be needed to be done by you. JUST YOU.
Read. Motivational, educational, inspirational, spiritual, explanatory, expository, Finance and business, romance, sex, read everything. Anything. You never know when it may come in handy.
Learn not only how to spend money but also how to make it. Even if you want to be a full housewife! Be financially stable. Be a valuable asset, not a liability.
With the way technology advances every day, things should get easier (when you have the money) but never let technology take your place in the lives of those you love.
Gat bad attitudes? Ditch them
Got good stuff in you? Improve on it
Those that can be corrected? Do it fast
Habits that hurt? limit or destroy them.
Know your God. Be prayerful. There would be times you are going to need it. In whatever way you decide to serve God, adhere to it.
Also, in the process of making a better you, don’t lose yourself. You are you, love it. You are imperfectly perfect. Beautifully made. Life can’t be beautiful without you in it. Have fun. Enjoy yourself. Never stop being beautiful.
Yeah Yeah. Money is not everything but it is needed for everything. Anything. Use your money to make way for those things money couldn’t get directly. Let your money bring you good tidings other than Instagram and Facebook likes.
NOW THAT’S IS A SLAY QUEEN!